Saturday, March 19, 2011

A Personal Mission Statement

Well I just finished up my second full week of school and I love it!  I'm thinking seriously about going full time or at least 3/4 time after this semester.  One of my classes for the first 7.5 weeks is called FYE or First Year Experience.  It is a great class and the lectures are awesome.  One of the topics this week was writing a personal mission statement.  There were two videos that we could watch.  One was just a random one of young girl writing her personal statement.  The other was the scene from Jerry Maquire where he writes a 25 page personal mission statement.  After reading the text and watching one of the videos, and i didn't watch Tom Cruise, I started thinking about my personal mission statement. 

Writing a personal mission statement is actually a daily tool to be used to keep you focused and on tract to obtain your short and long term goals, as well as keeping what is important in your life, and knowing who and what you want to be.  Using past life experiences and what you see yourself doing in the future are part of writing a mission statement.  So after all week long thinking about what was important, the reason I was doing what I was doing, and who I want to be and where I want to be in the next 1 to 4 years, I wrote a first draft of my personal mission statement.  It is in no way finished or close to where I want it to be, but it did get some of the preliminary things on paper. 

I have been a dreamer all my life, and I guess that is why I like to write.  Writing and dreaming gives me the opportunity to be someone I'm not.  Some of my goals have changed over the years but one thing that has never changed is my goal to be a published writer.  Some of you might wonder than why I'm not going after a degree in journalism or media.  Well writers don't really make that much money to start out with, especially if you don't make it on the best sellers list.  I have to be practical and I can still be a dreamer.  The practical side of me knows that I need to work for us to be able to survive, unless of course we win the lottery.  The dreamer side of me can still strive to be that published writer. 

As a person, I want to be someone that people trust, that is honest, that cares and that wants to help people, but also have family and friends in their life.  My husband and my child are the utmost of importance to me.  God is first in my life, but they come in second, then family, then work.  These are all things we need to consider.  I guess the bottom line here is this, writing this personal mission statement will help me to define short term, long term goals, and the map on how to achieve those. 

What are your long term and short term goals?  ARe you only living day to day with no thought of where you want to be in one, two or four years from now?  I'm 48 years old about to be 49, this has become majorily important to me, to achieve, accomplish and complete this before I'm too old to reap the benefits.

Have a blessed day!

Thursday, March 17, 2011

Progress in Life

School started on March 2nd, and to say I was a little fearful would be right on the money.  However, I am on the third week of school and am much calmer and not fearful any longer.  I'm ahead in my math course by two chapters and plan to be finished with the next two by the end of this week.  Now when things are going good, the devil likes to make life interesting.  So last Thursday after suffering with a toothache for three days I went to the dentist.  They cut the tooth out on Monday and I was not able to do any school work.  I became very anxious, but I had planned ahead and had already printed off my lectures and assignments for the week.  So on Tuesday morning and off and on all day, I worked on school work for my FYE class.  First Year Experience in case you wondered.  So because of the tooth extraction, I missed work on Tuesday as well and was a little worried, but God always provides and the devil will run when you evoke Jesus name.  It turns out that I will be working everyday next week because Chio, the regular custodian, has had a death in the family.  My prayers go out to him and his family. 

I guess what I'm getting at is that it is turning out to be a positive experience, and I think I'm going to try to bump up my classes.  I know that this is the right thing to do because God is making it happen one step at a time.  So if you are thinking about going back to school and how you are going to manage, God will provide the way and make sure you have what you need.  Your faith in God will see you through.  May you all have a blessed Day!

Love,
L

Thursday, March 3, 2011

School

Okay so school started on March 2nd, at Noon EST.  Was I nervous?  Was it what I expected?  Did I panic?  Yes. No. and No.  There are the answers in order of the questions.  Online school is totally awesome and it is not hard to reach your teachers, or your advisors or other students.  It is totally awesome and I'm loving it!  I've been doing math most of the day.  I'm trying to do as much as possible on the two days a week that I don't work so that I can just do an hour or so on the days that I do work.  We have to have all assignments turned in my Midnight EST on Saturday, sometimes Friday.  We can get all the work for the week on Sunday.  It is amazing to see how this works!  I've taken a few or attempted a couple of online courses before but this is way different and I totally recommend this school. 

Bryant Stratton actually has campuses all over New York, Ohio, Wisconsin (I think) and of course online and probably other places.  If you are thinking about going back to school this is definitely something or a school to look in to. 

I will update with progress as we go through... Love, L

Vow Renewal Ceremony

Okay so we had to make some changes in regards to renewing our vows.  The ceremony has been changed to November 12th, 2011.  That will be six years since our first date, or close.  We went out on our first, first time we met in person, on November 13th, 2005.  We met online through Match.com, and really it should never have happened, because his email bypassed not only Match.com's security, but earthlink's at the time. 
So we know that it was meant to be for us to meet and fall in love and get married.  If you are on Facebook, and are part of the family, you got an invitation.  Written invitations will go out in October.  We figure this will give us enough time to do it the way we want it!  The reason for the change?  I have to have a computer for school, and right now, I have one on loan from my church.  Thanks Ronnie!